May 15, 2009

Agony of Defeat

Category: Bruins — Mike @ 2:54 am

PHOTO CREDIT: Barry Chin, Boston Globe

Trifectas are really fun.

Reverse trifectas, not so much.

Thanks to a friend (thanks Rick!), I was able to go to the Bruins game last night. There are few things in sports like a Game 7. Game 7 is the culmination of a hard-fought seven game series. It is every sports cliché all wrapped into one game. One game to decide a season’s worth of blood, sweat, and tears.

The game was amazing. It was the best hockey game I have ever been to – even before it went to overtime. It had everything. It was pulse-pounding, gut wrenching and near heart attack inducing. Hell, I was nervous during the break before overtime. The Garden was jumping and the energy in there was electric. It was an adrenaline-filled surge up until Carolina scored their game-winning goal in overtime.

Then, the place became quiet.

It was a deathly quiet, an eerie quiet. It was so quiet that I could hear the screams of jubilation from the Carolina players down on the ice – all the way up from the second to last row in the balcony. Think about that. 17,000+ people. Silent.

After about 5-10 seconds of that stunned silence, the crowd began to cheer. It was an appreciative cheer for the effort the Bruins had given all season. It was the final curtain call for the 2008-2009 Bruins.  It went on while the Bruins gathered at their bench and watched the Hurricanes celebrate on their home ice.

One of the great things about hockey is at the end of each playoff series both teams line up at the center of the ice and shake hands. I wish they did this in every sport. As I watched the Bruins and Hurricanes exchange pleasantries, I scanned the crowd around me. It was like a funeral in there. Some people slumped down in their seat, others muttered (“What an awful, awful feeling” – I heard someone say), a guy slammed his fist into his chair and faces of dejection surrounded me.

As goaltender Tim Thomas skated away from the handshake line, towards the exit, he raised his mask and waved to the crowd. The crowd cheered again. Without Thomas, the game would have been a Carolina rout.

I feel awful. Not so much for the season ending, but for the (few) true Bruins diehards I know.  I am a Boston sports fan.  I’ve been one since I knew how to root for a team.  To me however, the Bruins always took a back seat to the Sox, Pats, and Celtics.  Even though the first ticket to a sporting event I ever bought was to a Bruins playoff game in 1990, I did feel like an outsider rooting for them at times.  There isn’t enough time in the week to passionately follow all four teams at once.

The diehards are the guys lived and died with this team. One of my diehard buddies brought a television to the AFC Championship game tailgate so he could watch the Bruins game. Another drove back to Montreal after watching Game 5 of this series so he could be back for morning classes the next day. This is a 4.5 hour drive! I felt so awful for those guys that I sent them texts apologizing for the loss. I had nothing to do with it, but I figured it was the least I could do for them.

I have to hand it to the Bruins. They had a very good season. They had the best record in the East, swept the dreaded Canadiens and were a goal away from advancing to the conference finals. Their most impressive accomplishment was that for three weeks, they stole the Boston sports spotlight. It was the 70’s all over again.  They were the top sports story in the greatest sports city in the world, and they earned it. I even got caught up in it. I am not ashamed to admit that I watched the Bruins more than the Celtics over the past few weeks.

Riding down the escalator of the Garden to leave, I saw an older gentleman next to another man. They didn’t look alike, but must have been season ticket partner friends or something. The older gentleman let out a deep sigh and with a stern look on his face, turned to his companion and said:

Well, I guess I will see you at game one next season.

You sure will, good sir.

The Bruins will be back.

Have a great weekend, everyone! Make the most of every day.

4 Comments »

  1. I feel the same way you do about openly rooting for the Bruins. Hockey is definitely last on my list but I DO want the Bruins to do well and I appreciate how diehard their fans are.

    My friend Chrissy (not a “guy” btw :D ) is one of those diehards. This morning she said she feels almost as bad as she did in October 2003. That broke my heart for her.

    Bruins and their fans have nothing to hang their heads about. They had a fabulous season.

    Comment by Cyn — May 15, 2009 @ 8:11 am

  2. Mike: I, too, was at the game last night. (Too bad we didn’t meet up for pre-game beers, but that’s another story)

    I really admire the way you were able to set emotion aside, and just let the moment wash over you. I, sadly, could not.

    Walker’s goal knotted up my stomach to the point where I immediately needed to leave and run for the T. I was fleeing the scene of the crime.

    You, on the other hand, were able to soak in the atmosphere. Thus, turning defeat into an enriching experience. You had the better time last night, and I’m a little jealous.

    Bravo.

    Comment by Jay Maguire — May 15, 2009 @ 10:19 am

  3. Thanks guys.

    Mags, I hear the loss was your fault :)

    Comment by Mike — May 15, 2009 @ 10:32 am

  4. Don’t feel bad. My team has been on the golf course for a month already. The Bruins had a great run although it would have been immensely satisfying to see them beat the Whalercanes. 16 weeks til training camp!

    Comment by Peggy — May 15, 2009 @ 11:44 am

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